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Old 01-11-2004   #1
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Hello, I've been lurking and meaning to post. Here's something I'm pondering:

I'm working on a multi-person "alt porn" pay site. I have an open casting call on the site as it is now, and I have mostly been contacted by sexy people who sound really great to work with. Recently, I got a model application from a guy maybe in his 40s, not conventionally attractive, and just not the look I'm going for. (Especially for solo/softcore pics.) I feel bad saying no to someone because they don't fit my beauty standards, but I need to give this guy an answer.

How do others reject potential models? I'd love to see a sample form letter if anyone has a standard reply.
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Remember Furry, just because they don't fit *your* beauty standards doesn't mean they won't fit someone else's. Hell, take a look at all the guys on GFY who think one pubic hair is too many and imagine how they'd react to your pics.

Better yet, look at Ron Jeremy... poor guy has let himself go so bad he should be doing Weight Watchers commercials, but he's *still* a highly sought-after stunt cock.

I say give the guy a chance at least. You never know, he might turn out to be great to work with and/or have a penis that would put Ron to shame. If nothing else, there are lots of webmasters over on LadyLynx.com who would die to have good photos of normal-looking men in softcore or solo action to go on their for-women sites. You can always shoot content of this guy and sell it rather than using it on your own site. Do one shoot, see how well it sells, and then make a decision about asking him back.
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Remember Furry, just because they don't fit *your* beauty standards doesn't mean they won't fit someone else's. Hell, take a look at all the guys on GFY who think one pubic hair is too many and imagine how they'd react to your pics.

Better yet, look at Ron Jeremy... poor guy has let himself go so bad he should be doing Weight Watchers commercials, but he's *still* a highly sought-after stunt cock.

I say give the guy a chance at least. You never know, he might turn out to be great to work with and/or have a penis that would put Ron to shame. If nothing else, there are lots of webmasters over on LadyLynx.com who would die to have good photos of normal-looking men in softcore or solo action to go on their for-women sites. You can always shoot content of this guy and sell it rather than using it on your own site. Do one shoot, see how well it sells, and then make a decision about asking him back.
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Hello, I've been lurking and meaning to post. Here's something I'm pondering:

I'm working on a multi-person "alt porn" pay site. I have an open casting call on the site as it is now, and I have mostly been contacted by sexy people who sound really great to work with. Recently, I got a model application from a guy maybe in his 40s, not conventionally attractive, and just not the look I'm going for. (Especially for solo/softcore pics.) I feel bad saying no to someone because they don't fit my beauty standards, but I need to give this guy an answer.

How do others reject potential models? I'd love to see a sample form letter if anyone has a standard reply.
Just send me a letter explaining that your not using fur coat guys as props.

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Actually... Ive done some swingers type shoots and vids. I was just very honest and not personal.

I'm sorry --- you not what Im looking for on this go round. But I will keep you in mind for future projects.

Always seemed to work for me.
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Remember Furry, just because they don't fit *your* beauty standards doesn't mean they won't fit someone else's. Hell, take a look at all the guys on GFY who think one pubic hair is too many and imagine how they'd react to your pics.

Better yet, look at Ron Jeremy... poor guy has let himself go so bad he should be doing Weight Watchers commercials, but he's *still* a highly sought-after stunt cock.

I say give the guy a chance at least. You never know, he might turn out to be great to work with and/or have a penis that would put Ron to shame. If nothing else, there are lots of webmasters over on LadyLynx.com who would die to have good photos of normal-looking men in softcore or solo action to go on their for-women sites. You can always shoot content of this guy and sell it rather than using it on your own site. Do one shoot, see how well it sells, and then make a decision about asking him back.
You gotta be kidding me?

Just because someone is willing to shoot doesn't mean you've gotta shoot 'em.

If someone shows up for a cattle call or whatever that you do not wanna shoot for any reason whatsoever, just politely and professionally tell them "you're not what we're looking for at the current time".

Sure, there's a market for just about anything. But for my purposes at least, we do not spend the time or money to shoot anything that we do not personally know how to market. You dont have to hurt anyone's feelings or be harsh, but part of being a professional is handling rejection...on both sides.
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Better yet, look at Ron Jeremy... poor guy has let himself go so bad he should be doing Weight Watchers commercials, but he's *still* a highly sought-after stunt cock.
If I was a content girl or a porn-star, you could NEVER pay me enough to shoot with that! Actually, I think there is not enough money in the whole world that would make me shoot with him...
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You gotta be kidding me?
I'm not. Ask Sandra (maxcash), CJ or Susanna how hard it is to find pics of real guys who aren't bending over and showing their brown starfish.
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Carrie, I actually agree with you- I'm sure there are plenty of women (and men) who would love to see porn of an average plain guy. This is why I said that he doesn't fit *my* standards. I do appreciate the full spectrum of attractiveness and sensuality, but that doesn't mean that every person is right for every project.

If anyone is running a "real guys" site, I would be glad to refer him onto you.

So debate of "what is attractive" aside, I don't suppose anyone has a standard reply they send to models they aren't interested in working with?
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Being clear and precise is important. This is a business, no need to baby anyone.


As far as Ron Jeremy - the reason he gets busniess is because he has made himself into an ICON inspite of his looks.
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As far as Ron Jeremy - the reason he gets busniess is because he has made himself into an ICON inspite of his looks.
Berck, berk and more berk!! He made himself into an Icon? Holly shit, someone must have give him some help to get there and if I could find that someone I would give him advice on what is nice to see in a porn and what makes you feel like throwing up! Not only he's ugly he also looks filthy, like he never washes...

But one sad thing I find as a women is no porn actors are attractive. It's too bad to say, most of them look dissapointing only a few ones are not so bad but still, not the hunk that would match those barbie dolls they are with. The gay actors are good looking thought but just not what I am looking for.
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mmmmm... my post was posted twice....



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So debate of "what is attractive" aside, I don't suppose anyone has a standard reply they send to models they aren't interested in working with?
Thank you very much for your application.

Unfortunately, we have filled all positions currently available & do not require your services.

We have filed your application and will contact you should a future project require your services.

blah blah blah blah ......
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If anyone is running a "real guys" site, I would be glad to refer him onto you.

Ahem...Cj?
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i get enough average looking 40 year olds sending me pictures of their dicks, chests, bums, balls etc as it is ... no cost for me to shoot the photos, quick signature on a 18+ document and i have content ...

and don't forget ... i don't live close ;-)
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i get enough average looking 40 year olds sending me pictures of their dicks, chests, bums, balls etc as it is ... no cost for me to shoot the photos, quick signature on a 18+ document and i have content ...

and don't forget ... i don't live close ;-)
Thats 42...

Besides it dont cost nuffin to email em.
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I'm still in shock over CJ revealing that Brad Pitt is 40 now. Damn I feel old all of a sudden.
I think he'll be eternally 27 in my mind... and I'd probably still hit it when it gets to be 70, LOL
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I'm still in shock over CJ revealing that Brad Pitt is 40 now. Damn I feel old all of a sudden.
I think he'll be eternally 27 in my mind... and I'd probably still hit it when it gets to be 70, LOL
I hear ya Carrie ... ya know you are getting old when the folks you grew up purving on turn 40!!!!

i watched meet joe black on tv last night - that's how i will always think of him LOL
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You might be right Mike, I haven't personnaly rented a porno in at least 2 years. I know when you look the eigthies ones, it is really sad, they're all really bad looking. Still, gay porn guys are the cutest! So since Viagra exist and they can find better looking people, why don't they just get rid of Ron Jeremy!!!!
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I'm still in shock over CJ revealing that Brad Pitt is 40 now. Damn I feel old all of a sudden.
I think he'll be eternally 27 in my mind... and I'd probably still hit it when it gets to be 70, LOL
I hope you will still want it at 70, cause I don't see me loosin the drive any time between now and then. urpdance:
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Just tell him that at the present time he does not fit the particular model type you are casting for but you will keep him on file and contact him should a role surface that he would be a fit for. Thank him for his time and promise to stay in touch or refer him out should you hear of anything in the near future.
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You might be right Mike, I haven't personnaly rented a porno in at least 2 years. I know when you look the eigthies ones, it is really sad, they're all really bad looking. Still, gay porn guys are the cutest! So since Viagra exist and they can find better looking people, why don't they just get rid of Ron Jeremy!!!!

I do not think Ron does many sex scenes - he is more comedy relief and has some host type chores now. He is pretty funny, and has a little stand up he does.

I admire him for being able to make himself a posistion in the industry years after his prime. He is a smart busniess person.
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and don't forget ... i don't live close ;-)
Ah hem .....
I thought we weren't going to talk about the pics I've been sending of myself

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Thanks everyone for your replies!

In retrospect, I wish I hadn't started my time here with such a downer of a thread. I hope this didn't give the impression that I'm a superficial bitch, this guy just wasn't right for the site I'm working to get content for.
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Thanks everyone for your replies!

In retrospect, I wish I hadn't started my time here with such a downer of a thread. I hope this didn't give the impression that I'm a superficial bitch, this guy just wasn't right for the site I'm working to get content for.
Thanks for asking the question.
Good thread!
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