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This morning I had an epiphany of sorts. I’ve been dating Jodi almost a year now. This month marks our one year anniversary. The moment we met there was an instant connection. It was sexual, spiritual and most certainly on a whole other plane then anything I had ever experienced before. Being in the adult biz as long as I have, I’ve had lots of great sexual experiences. I’ve spend most of my adult life single and to be honest I never expected to live monogamy.
I had always believed that people got together, enjoyed the ride and stayed together under false commitments. When I looked around at my friends I saw cheating, miserable people ready to kill each other. There were too many secrets, too many lies and a struggle to cohabitate. Why in heavens name would I want to be part of that shit? So I enjoyed my single Goddess life, dangling male and female slaves. My revolving doors swung in shifts. Morning coffee in bed with an orgasm, clean my bathroom, shave my legs, rub my feet & back… now get out. I thought this would be my life forever. I believe that there’s someone for everyone and you know it the moment you look in their eyes. It extends beyond lust and passion. At least I believe this now. I thought after a few months it would fade. I’d meet my sexual quota and I’d be set for a few months. Challenges naturally entered the relationship but the lust never faded. Even during our most heated arguments I could look at her and still want to fuck her. This morning I watched her making coffee and this flood of sensation overwhelmed me. “Damn, I’m really in love.” The thought of being with someone else doesn’t even cross my mind. Years ago this couldn’t happen. The wind blows the right way and I’m jumping on a new kinky situation. So I figured I’d purpose an Oprano poll to see how many of you felt this way about someone or how many of you cheat on your spouses. I’d really love to hear from those brave souls who have falling in love, got married and find it impossible to stay faithful, however I realize that it’s a public venue and will settle for a vote in the poll. If you do have true love..post your love story here.
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sorry folks this post is partially my fault
dv and i were talking relationships this am :P kiss sweety 
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Spill the beans dude. Is it serious? Hey Serge, this is a great thread for you and Lady Law... now after 5 months, is the honeymoon over, just getting started or what? All I know is I haven't heard hide or hair from LL ever since you two hitched. No calls, no pages.. nothing. Are you keeping her locked in a cage?? lol
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I really think that you need to define cheating
Personally I have only ever been in momogamous relationships for my entire life. However - I have met dozens of people, especially since being in this biz, that are perfectly fine with having a wide open relationship. I think it is up to the people involved, whatever they decide. I think that if you do have the "cheat" desire you should be with a like minded partner, or no partner at all - just date people as you see fit. I think it is much worse to lie to someone. |
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Jeff, I am with you.... monogomy is a very unnatural state of things.
However, human beings choose it for numerous reasons.... I think Marriage is extremely important in this society, and should be held sacred. I think people are allowed to get divorced way to easily now adays. Of course I am a guy, so seperating sex and love is not an issue. I would feel more betrayed if my partner was spending a lot of emotiona, quality time with someone else, not giving it to me.... Not sure if this answers anything.... but my fingers just started hitting the keyboard...  
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I agree with Jeff - cheating is lying. If you're lying to your SO, THAT'S cheating, but if you an open relationship and have sexual relationships with other, I don't consider that cheating. For instance, Bill probably shared details on his experiences with Hillary.
 IMHO, someone that actually cheats on their SO is a coward - they're not brave enough to be loyal, and they're not brave enough to leave the relationship so they can play. 
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I have no problem with open marriages. I think it’s great if two people are really into it. I have, however seen women get involved, desperately wanting love so badly that they force themselves into these situations. There are those unique couples that have unconditional love and can handle being with other people. It’s rare. Being a very open-minded woman I can honestly say that I don’t personally know any women who would honestly admit that they enjoy being with different people when they are IN LOVE with someone. I can honestly say that any couples I do know that have been into swinging or open relationships have taken bizarre turns where one DID step out of the relationship and have an affair. Let’s keep in mind that it’s not always about sex. A man or woman will seek out a connection that enhances them. An emotional need, intimacy or a spiritual fulfillment. I can honestly say that I’ve never expected to be in the place I am right now feeling this way. It really makes me wonder.
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Then the truth is that he wants his cake and to eat it too.
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Of course I am a guy, so seperating sex and love is not an issue. I would feel more betrayed if my partner was spending a lot of emotiona, quality time with someone else, not giving it to me....
*********************************************** hahahahhahaaha, we never discussed this but now I know why we are partners... ;-)) I once told to one of my exes: I don't care whom you have flings with, but if you go to the theater or museums with them and not me- I'll be REAL pissed! ;-))))
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For my part I really don't know if any of that is correct As for this thread - I'll get back to it in a few weeks 
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I'm with Colin... it's about a foot below the eyes ;-)
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