Whacha Think? Porn Webmasters Getting Too Mean?

[JR]

Originally posted by Carrie@Mar 4 2003, 10:30 PM
KK I agree. Still, there's not many 19yr olds who can handle seeing themselves being called a "nasty bitch" or a "whore" and slough it off.

Hell, there's some grown women who feel the need to take every little thing personally. It's either insecurity or an overinflated sense of self; probably a mixture of both.

*looking back through thread to see if Mutt mentioned how old the two models were*

i think its more a question of communication. i have worked with hundreds of models in person and usually, they think money first... and everything else is an afterthought.

i think its a deeply emotional thing just to be able to drop your guard and your clothes and start taking hardcore photos/video. people have boundaries both physically and emotionally and for most, it is difficult and somewhat traumatic to move beyond those boundaries.

we try very hard to address this issue very well in our studios. we get a ton of rude users in all chat rooms being extremely rude and mean... in addition that the discomfort of being nude in front of the world with their legs spread... its increasingly demoralizing when users are "less than supportive" ... but what it is... is what it is. we cant modify the behavior of the users and change others, we can only modify our own behavior.

thats why we go very far out of our way to teach the girls that the rudeness (the guys who enter and type in all caps "PUT YOUR FINGERS IN YOUR ASS BITCH) is just role play and fantasy. that he is just acting out a fantasy that he cannot act out at home with his wife/girlfriend or whatever.

we feel its necessary to do a lot to build them [girls] up while they are working by constantly letting them know in various ways that they are the star, that everyone is there because they like them... because they are beautiful... because they have a beautiful smile... great eyes... a nice body and a terrific personality etc etc.

to me, its just an issue of communication. everyone wants the $$$ - everything else is an afterthought. to have a happy and successful relationship, there must be clear and successful communication. i think its our job to make sure that everyone is clear on whats going on, what will happen, how that content will be used, who will be looking at it etc.

I think mutt, that if the girl was not happy after the fact... she would not have been any more content, if everything had been explained to her upfront. she just was probably not the right person for the job.



Last edited by JR at Mar 4 2003, 11:24 PM