Of scruples and nekkid pics...

[miz_wright]

Ouch. I think that's a judgment call - me, I'd touch base w/ them privately. I dunno about you, but I know how many times I've done something at some point in my past that I would like to have respected that I had a change of heart.

[Hell Puppy]

Originally Posted by LizAEBN

Ouch. I think that's a judgment call - me, I'd touch base w/ them privately. I dunno about you, but I know how many times I've done something at some point in my past that I would like to have respected that I had a change of heart.

That's the high road for sure.

Does your answer change though based upon the person's behavior toward you or even the world in general?

Let's say hypothetically it's someone who has been an absolute shithead and if the roles were reversed would've already had it on every board and stirring the drama?

I guess my scruples have a lot of shades of grey. But you'll also notice I haven't posted anything or even said who yet.

[miz_wright]

Originally Posted by Hell Puppy

That's the high road for sure.

Does your answer change though based upon the person's behavior toward you or even the world in general?

Let's say hypothetically it's someone who has been an absolute shithead and if the roles were reversed would've already had it on every board and stirring the drama?

I guess my scruples have a lot of shades of grey. But you'll also notice I haven't posted anything or even said who yet.

That's 'cos you're a decent guy.

And, I'd like to say that no, my answer wouldn't change - I'm not generally the type to stir stuff up that way 'cos I don't like it when others do it to me. *shrug*

Besides, if I tried to make payback to all the people who've been shitheads to me over the years, I'd have no time to do things like "work," "bug GonZo," or "eat."

[Hell Puppy]

Originally Posted by LizAEBN

That's 'cos you're a decent guy.

And, I'd like to say that no, my answer wouldn't change - I'm not generally the type to stir stuff up that way 'cos I don't like it when others do it to me. *shrug*

Besides, if I tried to make payback to all the people who've been shitheads to me over the years, I'd have no time to do things like "work," "bug GonZo," or "eat."

I essentially agree. I keep lots of secrets, I know where lots of bodies are buried and some closets that have skeletons in it. Hell, I might even have a stray bone or two laying around myself.

As a general rule, I do a lot more listening than talking. And if someone tells me something in confidence or asks me not to share, I dont. Period. No gray area there.