Non-consensual sex?

[Toby]

PC be damned. I'm about as anti-PC as they come.

The fact that I'm located in Texas and not in Canada has far more bearing on my perspective than whether or not it's PC.

Sex with bondage doesn't bother me. I understand that bondage isn't about non-consent, it's about turning over control. The person being bound isn't being forced.

[RawAlex]

Originally Posted by Toby

PC be damned. I'm about as anti-PC as they come.

The fact that I'm located in Texas and not in Canada has far more bearing on my perspective than whether or not it's PC.

Sex with bondage doesn't bother me. I understand that bondage isn't about non-consent, it's about turning over control. The person being bound isn't being forced.

Toby, we have no issue with bondage, but Canadian law gets pretty nasty when it comes to bondage with penetration, because no matter what a contract might say or the players may say after, the act is by definition non-consentual because the person being penetrated cannot stop the penetration. Quite simply, you cannot hogtie a girl and fuck her on camera, as the images are of non-consentual sex (and apparently it only takes a single still image, the actual run of the rest of the scene is not important)

[Toby]

Originally Posted by RawAlex

...but Canadian law gets pretty nasty when it comes to bondage with penetration...

And US law is just as nasty in regards to sexual assault.

[softball]

Originally Posted by Toby

And US law is just as nasty in regards to sexual assault.

Hence all the "happy endings" at kink dot com.

[gonzo]

Originally Posted by rhetorical

Hence all the "happy endings" at kink dot com.

They werent very nice to me...

[softball]

Originally Posted by gonzo

They werent very nice to me...

The ball gag was too tight?

[gonzo]

Originally Posted by rhetorical

The ball gag was too tight?

LAJ was hogging the hot tub with all the other San Fran guys.