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Originally Posted by sarettah

You don't allow your kids to have an "unsupervised" mail address.

Just as you should review what snail mail your child receives, you should be supervising what email they receive.

The problem is not the "spammers". Even the most diehard spammer wants to send their shit to folks with credt cards. They don't want kids in their lists. If a kid is in an email list that usually means their email was either entered into a porn site, put out by them on a message board or some other such.

My children have never been allowed, on our compuers, to have a password protected user account and have been strongly advised against ever entering their real email address into a site. I scan through who is sending them emails on a regular basis.

Granted, that does not stop them from openng a yahoo account fom the library or the school. I have to trust them to a large extent to obey the rules.

And as a result they ecive very little spam in thei mailboxes and they receive zero porn spam in their mailboxes. I know because I have them set up on my mail server and can monitor it all. And I don't run any blockers.

I am quite tired of you puting all the blame on everything bad on the adult net on the spammers and by innuendo trying to rag on Nick.

OK, here's the deal. Your kid is 13 to 15 years old. He hangs out at internet joints. He is curious. He sees a porn site. That is where it starts. Now a few years ago when Nick was spamming some pretty vile stuff, parents did not know how to protect their children. Many still don't.
So I do put a huge amount of blame on spammers for the damage they have done to the business and by association and admission, nick is proud to have been one of the biggest.
So, do you actually think that spam is good? Do you actually believe that that shit was good for our business and never hurt it?
I will always rag on vile porn spammers. I think it is evil shit. Could you please tell me one good thing that spam has done for our business? It is universally reviled including on this board. And when Nick had this joint, he bragged about what he had done and (nudge nudge, wink wink) had stopped doing.
I think bragging about making a fortune in spam or any other internet scam that ripped people off, sent porn to kids, or was really bad for fledgling internet commerce (porn and straight) is somewhat akin to bragging about making a fortune selling coke. It is not somthing to be proud of, for anyone to emulate, or to promote as a legitimate internet business model.
So you tell me what you think about spam and those who produce it.

Edit: oh yeah, and the amount of heat that spam brought down on us was immense. Even criminals hate those who attract heat. It gets them busted.

[sarettah]

I do snailmail spam systems during the day time. I have about 11 or 12 years experience doing them. We call them "direct marketing databases" but it is spam. People did not request to get our letters, they just showed up on our list by virtue of having bought a new house, gotten a new telephone number or several other events that get them identified in a system as a "new mover".

Is junk mail reviled. Generally, yes.
Do people profess to hate it. Generally, yes.
Does it kill trees by using up massive amounts of paper. Yes.
etc etc etc.

There are tons of bad things people say about junk mail. Same sort of things they say about email spam. They don't receive quite as much junkmail as they do email spam because junkmail costs to send each piece.

But for all the folks who claim to hate it, all the folks who want it stopped etc.

PEOPLE RESPOND TO IT. IT WORKS.

Just like email spam. If people did not respond to it, if the mailer was not making bucks by sending it, it would stop. That simple.

As far as the amount of heat brought upon this industry by spam, I don't think it did half as much damage as did credit card schemes and the like.

How come no one is claiming that the mortgages industry has been hurt by spam, how come the heat isn't on them. I get ten times the amount of spam from them as I do adult. How come the heat isn't coming down super hard on pharma, illegal software, or any of the 5000 other subjects I get spammed daily (none of them adult).

Because SPAM was just another excuse to come down on Porn. The heat comes down because it is porn, not because it is being spammed. A certain minority in our country would love to see every expression of sexuality shut down. They don't give a shit about how many folks they hurt. They would love nothing more then to see every one of us "pornographers" dead in the name of their morality.

And 99.99999% of the time they try to do it in the name of the children.

It is my job as a parent to supervise my children until they are old enough to make their own choices. It is also my responsibility to educate them in how to make intelligent, rational choices so that when they are away from my supervision I can be pretty sure that they are going to be ok. It is also my responsibility, as a parent, to educate myself as to the things my children involve themselves in or want to involve themselves in.

[sarettah]

Originally Posted by rhetorical

OK, here's the deal. Your kid is 13 to 15 years old. He hangs out at internet joints. He is curious. He sees a porn site. That is where it starts.

Additional response to this...lol.

What is the problem there? When my son was 14 or 15 I discovered that some playboys magazines that I had in my closet had suddenly disappeared. I went into his room, lifted up his mattress and there they were. (I left them there and did not mention it to him until he was 21 and I took him to a titty bar for his birthday when he was home on leave). How did I know where they would be? Because that is where I stashed my pilfered magazines when I was 14 or 15.

Boys are going to be curious about what women look like naked. That has gone on forever and will go on forever. A child can find all the porn they want through google images. Google doesn't ask how old you are when you go turn off the safe filter. So, how come the problem isn't Google ? How come the problem isn't the proliferation of porn on the internet and society in general. How come the problem isn't the beach? You can see a whole lot of near naked folks all over the place.