what turns you on?

[spazlabz]

with women? for me if i had to break it down it would be about like this.
50% - intelligence
20% - willingness (they say yes when i beg)
20% - Boobies (gotta be natural for me)
10% - their looks
I put my highest priority on a woman's intelligence because i think once you have closed the deal, it is very nice to be able to sit around and talk about something other then hair color, which celeb is currently in a scandal, and if the bubbles in champaigne make you 'giggle'.

what do you guys look for in a woman that really wins ya over?

2 women who are very hot by my standards....
Marie from Sex Story Text
Sarah WebInc.... I have never seen Sarah but her personality is great!
(these 2 are very smart ladies )


spaz

[MorganGrayson]

I decided to answer this, vis~a~vis men that turn me on. I picked "other." It was a toss up between intelligence and a sense of humor like mine, and I realized that having a sense of humor like mine covered intelligence. As far as "body," I think every guy should have one. Good looks fade, or get changed by one semi-serious car accident or other odd happenings, so they're irrelevent. "Willingness to please" made me think of a Golden Retriever puppy and I crossed it off the list.

[spazlabz]

Originally Posted by MorganGrayson

"Willingness to please" made me think of a Golden Retriever puppy and I crossed it off the list.

LOL I just thought it was a nicer way to say it then slutty as hell!! which by the way... is a nice personality trait and works out well for some women... just not one of those things that are real high on my list


spaz

[WickedTemptress]

Well, I'm into women as well as men, so, I'll answer this...

Intelligence is important, yes. But, she would also have to have a good attitude too, an open mind, sense of humor, and be comfortable with her sexuality...

Looks are nice, but, not the most important thing.

[Bhelliom]

Originally Posted by WickedTemptress

Well, I'm into women as well as men, so, I'll answer this...

Intelligence is important, yes. But, she would also have to have a good attitude too, an open mind, sense of humor, and be comfortable with her sexuality...

Looks are nice, but, not the most important thing.

So far you have all of the above qualities... I'm in love

[WickedTemptress]

Originally Posted by Bhelliom

So far you have all of the above qualities... I'm in love

Awww, thanks for the compliment Honey

[Bhelliom]

I'm going to agree that intelligence is the most important thing to me.

One of my biggest turn offs is women who follow celebs religiously. Drives me nuts. I think its their lives and let them do whatever the fuck they want and we'll do the same.

The second most important thing for me (close to intelligence) is an open mind. I like women who are willing to take risks and try new things even though they may not turn out for the best.

As long as you can carry on a conversation and reach for the stars as they say. you're good in my books.

Although I do prefer women that look like Angelina Jolie, It's not as important. :P

[weirdharold]

Intelligence is by far the most important consideration, but then there are variables which can truely drive me crazy... One being a redhead! Add to that a super SEXY speaking voice, an overly excited excitment voice, extremely vocal orgasms... Then you have intellegence on top of that; I am then one hooked crazy mofo!

My God Red what you do to me!

[Red]

Originally Posted by weirdharold

Intelligence is by far the most important consideration, but then there are variables which can truely drive me crazy... One being a redhead! Add to that a super SEXY speaking voice, an overly excited excitment voice, extremely vocal orgasms... Then you have intellegence on top of that; I am then one hooked crazy mofo!

My God Red what you do to me!

I try to do my best baby. You bring out the wanton woman in me.

[Red]

I chose other as well, since it's a sense of humor and intelligence that are the two most important factors for me. Some women get the hots for actors or singers, for me it's comedians. An intelligent man who makes me laugh can have me for life.

[MorganGrayson]

OT:

I just noticed I broke 1000 posts!

[WickedTemptress]

Originally Posted by MorganGrayson

OT:

I just noticed I broke 1000 posts!

Congratulations Honey!

[Bhelliom]

Congratulations Morgan

[Trev]

The switch on my back

[Bobbiekey]

I have to admit that I picked *Other* Body is not important to me, that's far too superficial. Mind you, bedding down with a 450lb ex semi pro football player that squishes all of the air out of you every time you make love is a whole different story. I know it's workable, but I've been there, done that, dont' want to go there again and I am greatful to still have a spine

I have more than one *highest priority* when it comes to men. The first being a wonderful sense of humor. I have a very warped sense of humor, love to laugh, sometimes at the wrong times, but a hearty guffaw seems to set my day right and it's good to have a guy laughing right along with you, as opposed to looking at you like you're some type of knucklehead.

Secondly, a man who appreciates my down home cooking and tells me so (I am an excellent cook). If I spend all day preparing mouth watering delights to please his pallate, the last thing I want to hear is "eh, it's alright" If it's good... tell me so! If it sucks.. tell me it's the best thing you ever ate!

Thirdly, a man who treats me like a princess, but lets me be a whore in the bedroom. I'm not talking about being some guy's hole either. I am highly sensual and lovemaking, to me, should be sensual, for both parties. I love to lavish with massage, nibbles, lapping up drizzles of honey or chocolate, taking him to the edge and easing off, doing all those wonderful things that he gets so much pleasure from. I love making my guy feel ultimately satisfied. So, a man who doesn't mind a long sensual lovemaking session from time to time is both a bonus and a priority. Quickies are nice and have their place, don't get me wrong here. lol

[gonzo]

Originally Posted by Bobbiekey

Secondly, a man who appreciates my down home cooking and tells me so (I am an excellent cook). If I spend all day preparing mouth watering delights to please his pallate, the last thing I want to hear is "eh, it's alright" If it's good... tell me so! If it sucks.. tell me it's the best thing you ever ate!

can you make biscuits?

[Bobbiekey]

Congrats Morgan!

[Bobbiekey]

Can I make biscuits? Heck, I even make my own bread and bake my own pies. How about some biscuits and gravy with your southern fried chicken and mashed taters?

[MorganGrayson]

If I had a penis, Bobbie girl, your fine self would be in my kitchen!

I lived in Kentucky for 15 years, which is where I picked up my love for biscuits and gravy and good fried chicken. I make a pretty decent biscuits and gravy.

My daughter makes "place your order two days in advance" buttermilk biscuits. Yummy.

[spazlabz]

Originally Posted by MorganGrayson

If I had a penis, Bobbie girl, your fine self would be in my kitchen!

I lived in Kentucky for 15 years, which is where I picked up my love for biscuits and gravy and good fried chicken. I make a pretty decent biscuits and gravy.

My daughter makes "place your order two days in advance" buttermilk biscuits. Yummy.

I live in Kentucky now.... and it takes all of my willpower to turn away from that kind of food and I really need to LOL


spaz

[EroticySteve]

My first turn on is money. Next to that I'm a fan of cute women, who have a whole lot of intelligence to back up their looks.

[weirdharold]

Yeah Bobbie I love that greasy food, but since my little heart problems my doctor would shit if he knew I was eating that stuff ..... so I don't tell him! have cut way back on it though! I really miss it.

[Nickatilynx]

I've always found that them finding me attractive , is a very attractive quality

;-))

[MorganGrayson]

Originally Posted by Nickatilynx

I've always found that them finding me attractive , is a very attractive quality

;-))

After smacking Nick briefly for his rampant ego....

It's a true comment. It *is* easier to respond to someone who is obviously finding you attractive. A little boost to one's own ego can make insecurities and hesitations shut up and let one's own best qualities shine. I'm not talking about smarmy guys who stare at tits or women who first noticed what kind of car you're driving or watch you're wearing; I'm talking about people who laugh at your jokes; listen to what you say; or truly find whatever physical traits you happen to possess attractive.

[SykkBoy]

pardon me being shallow, but body (now that being said, i like a certain body type, mainly a body with curves, I hate those toothpick women...ugh)

I know it sounds shallow, but if I'm out at a club, I'm not looking across the floor going "ooh, I wonder if she has a Phd in physics"

[Trev]

Originally Posted by SykkBoy

I know it sounds shallow, but if I'm out at a club, I'm not looking across the floor going "ooh, I wonder if she has a Phd in physics"

That is a life

[MorganGrayson]

Originally Posted by SykkBoy

pardon me being shallow, but body (now that being said, i like a certain body type, mainly a body with curves, I hate those toothpick women...ugh)

I know it sounds shallow, but if I'm out at a club, I'm not looking across the floor going "ooh, I wonder if she has a Phd in physics"

That's not shallow, or if it is, I'm shallow, too. I can't stand thin men. Once, in my youthful attempts at participating in the '70's - which failed miserably, by the way - I had sex with a thin guy. It was like being attacked by a tree branch. All sharp edges and nothing to wrap my arms and legs around.

The degree in physics, as a metaphor, doesn't come in on the intital attraction. It does, however, determine whether or not the fun first date turns into anything more.

[Trev]

Originally Posted by MorganGrayson

That's not shallow, or if it is, I'm shallow, too. I can't stand thin men. Once, in my youthful attempts at participating in the '70's - which failed miserably, by the way - I had sex with a thin guy. It was like being attacked by a tree branch. All sharp edges and nothing to wrap my arms and legs around.

The degree in physics, as a metaphor, doesn't come in on the intital attraction. It does, however, determine whether or not the fun first date turns into anything more.

I'm a thin man

[MorganGrayson]

Originally Posted by Trev

I'm a thin man

Some good cooking will take care of that, crumpet. And even if it doesn't, for *you* I will make an exception. (The guy to whom I referred in my earlier post had nothing whatsoever going for him except sneaking me into the men's dorm of his college, which gave me a story to tell. I like anything that gives me a good story to tell.) You have *so* much going for you, that "body type" is irrelevent.

[Trev]

Originally Posted by MorganGrayson

Some good cooking will take care of that, crumpet. And even if it doesn't, for *you* I will make an exception. (The guy to whom I referred in my earlier post had nothing whatsoever going for him except sneaking me into the men's dorm of his college, which gave me a story to tell. I like anything that gives me a good story to tell.) You have *so* much going for you, that "body type" is irrelevent.

I could tell you stories

Not sure if you had a glimps of the skinny brit but here is me:

[WickedTemptress]

Originally Posted by MorganGrayson

That's not shallow, or if it is, I'm shallow, too. I can't stand thin men. Once, in my youthful attempts at participating in the '70's - which failed miserably, by the way - I had sex with a thin guy. It was like being attacked by a tree branch. All sharp edges and nothing to wrap my arms and legs around.

The degree in physics, as a metaphor, doesn't come in on the intital attraction. It does, however, determine whether or not the fun first date turns into anything more.

LMFAO!!!!!!! OMG Morgan, that just made my morning, thanks Honey!

[MorganGrayson]

heheheh

You're welcome, WT!

[weirdharold]

Could someone give me a definition of "fickle"?

[MorganGrayson]

Originally Posted by weirdharold

Could someone give me a definition of "fickle"?

Sure!

fickle
adj 1: marked by erratic changeableness in affections or attachments; "fickle friends"; "a flirt's volatile affections" [syn: volatile] 2: liable to sudden unpredictable change; "erratic behavior"; "fickle weather"; "mercurial twists of temperament"; "a quicksilver character, cool and willful at one moment, utterly fragile the next" [syn: erratic, mercurial, quicksilver(a)]


We live to serve!

[weirdharold]

Thank you! that seems to confirm my thoughts about your comments to Trev. :P

[MorganGrayson]

Originally Posted by weirdharold

Thank you! that seems to confirm my thoughts about your comments to Trev. :P

Actually, my feelings about Trev is one of the few constants in this ever changing world.

[Vick]

Breath and a pulse

oh wait I was referring to the average American Male


Obviously intelligence but I'm not fucking anyone for (just) their brain. Unintelligent people don't get the joke and are beneath my time.

After intelligence is looks which ties in closely (in most cases) with age but has something to do with intelligence. Looks also encompass style

Is if she's intelligent and around me obviously she's submissive


and yes I'm a bone rack 178 Cm and 68Kg