what would you like to hear on the day of your funeral?

[MorganGrayson]

Originally Posted by Peaches

I learned recently that the funeral really isn't for the one who died. I have always wanted to be cremated but I told my family to do whatever they wanted. I just hope they don't dress me in something that makes my ass look big!

On the day of my funeral I want to hear "Hi Mom!".

Peaches...my husband and I had a wonderful discussion, where we decided that the first one to go would be cremated and the ashes kept until the other died and was cremated. We thought it would be wonderful if all three of our daughters got together and scattered the ashes, in a place we'd think about and decide upon.

That grand, romantic plan lasted until I told my youngest daughter about it. Oh, my, the facial expression. I had to back pedal FAST and say "then again, dear, you can do whatever you need to do, whatever you're happy with."