PattyeCake

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1st off, again Carrie I'm sorry I confused you with Cassie. It was NOT my intention - it's been a very emotional week for me and I confused r's with s's.

Cassie,
I can understand your opinions but your comments truly wre unfounded. Baddog posted that thread based upon information that I provided to him directly. I didn't say "go post this" nor did I tell him "don't say anything".

I have been in constant contact with Pattye since she heard the news from her doctors and YES, she did authorize me to let people know what is going on. I refuse to go into what happened with FC here, as that is an issue that the parties involved need to resolve on their own.

My own mother went thru this type of cancer so don't think I don't know what kind of intimacy discussing it on an open forum means. I only released this information after consulting with Pattye. She wanted her friends to know her medical condition and the boards was basically the option available given the circumstances. I also msg'd mutual friends to let them know directly what was going on.

Did baddog start that thread incorrectly? I don't think so. He initiated discussion that needs to be discussed. And by doing so he also garnered support for Pattye in the process. You however, waltzed into the thread and started throwing darts at people and THAT was wrong. You had no idea at the time what initated that thread and you should have censored yourself to being a friend as you claim to be of pattye's and providing love and support to pattye instead of bashing everyone else. I think your priorities might be a bit skewed.

Now please, can we redirect this thread back to it's original purpose? To support PattyeCake in whatever way that anyone can? I think that would be the smart thing and let's put the daggers away. Thanks!