I fully agree with Liz. Carol and I have been married for 28 years and just haven't been sexually monogamous through any of it. Personally, the thought of sex with just one person for the rest of my life would totally depress me! That must just become so dreadfully boring after a while. I can see why so many people get divorced just due to that!
We always felt that if monogamy truly works for you, then that is great. Unfortunately, very few people are truly monogamous as the high rates of cheating and infidelity show. I know too many people who say they are monogamous and could never "Swing" yet cheat on their wives on a continuous basis.
But to each their own. Consenting open-minded couples tend to have as strong a relationship as any other couple, but without the worry of infidelity
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