If you want "porn for women" there is NOTHING better than movies directed by Andrew Blake.
http://www.andrewblake.com/ The guy has been around a long time and even his old stuff still really holds up well.
http://www.andrewblake.com/static/xc...me.php?cat=250 Some GREAT DVD's for you to pick up there. Even women that couldn't stand porn that i dated absolutley LOVED Andrew Blake movies. I'll never forget this movie
http://www.gamelink.com/display_product.jhtml?id=52933 Hidden Obsessions that had the most amazing girl-girl scene with an ice dildo. people still tlak about that scene today. Every girl I've shown it to loved it!!