Not having anyone in school even visiting wear perfume or cologne is an accomodation?
And then what? One day they go on the bus and freak out because they can't get used to it? What happens when they go to the Mall, as all kids do. Is the perfume squirting hordes going to know this kid has been kept in a social bottle and not to approach? No, this crap is way too far.
I remember the psychological discussions of "what about when my kid wants to touch the burner, I don't want him to get hurt" scenario that's brought up now and then. And they pretty much say, you have a choice, if you keep not letting the child learn now, they will learn it later, and the burn will be bigger, and they might not be around to receive treatment.
Guess what? Life is unfair. They shouldn't have 16 years or whatever of being sheltered from that, they will come out babbling lunatics. I totally disagree they will "learn" something by never having experienced it. Your point makes no sense there.
And as to my remark about pushing off a cliff was ... it what it was: An extreme opposite of this cuddling bubble shit; as extreme in it's "equal and opposite" nature to the bullshit I was hearing.