It is not a theory, it is reality.
When women are dating, they tend to be attracted to the "dangerous" guys and that is who ends up getting laid.
When they are finally looking to get married, that is when they start noticing the "nice" guys. The ones who have been there the entire time, the ones that they think of as "friends".
Same thing with guys to an extent. Guys go out with women they wouldn't dare take home to meet mom because it's the tramps, not the "nice" girls, who put out. When they start looking to get married that is when they look for the nice girls.
However, this all sort of backfires on us because when a guy is looking for a nice girl, the women can smell that the guy is looking for long term and get the fuck out of the way, same thing when a women is looking for the nice guy, all the guys smell long term commitment and get the hell out of the way.
If a nice guy looking for a nice girl happen to meet at precisely the right moment, a nice girl looking for a nice guy, then you end up with all the beautiful love shit. The chance of that actually happening though are akin to winning powerball, but it does happen sometimes. Those are the marriages that go on forever. More often than not, people get together because they are "settling" and those often end up in divorce.
And I know this is right because it came from my brain and poured out my fingers on to the keyboard and left a real wet sticky mess behind.
Truth and reality are just a big, wet sticky mess
