I guess I was having a sick day when the memo went out that kids need toys every week. My kids have been RIPPED all these years!
Seriously, Ryan, you've been given some VERY good advice here...not much more to say than what's been said....so, in summation:
1. Kids don't need 'stuff' to feel loved
2. Kids need your time and attention to feel loved
3. 'For the sake of the kids' is never a good reason to stay together and can be more harmful to children than an amicable split
Best of luck with it Ryan