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Originally posted by Winetalk.com@May 4 2005, 04:33 AM
aeon, I would never date you if I was a girl, you are to shallow for my taste and not man enough. "Real Man" don't let those thoughts bother them, they are irrelevant. You are not self assured enough for me to date you...if I was a girl.
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Bullshit. This has nothing to do with being shallow (which admittedly I can be, but it doesn't apply to this). It's called realizing your own faulting. When I take an interest in more than just nailing a girl, I'm of the opinion she should be treated with respect. People making inappropriate comments to a girl I'm "with" have a tendency to not go over well. As mentioned earlier, sometimes I pop and being disrespectful to a woman I'm with is one instance where it's hard for me to keep it under control.
Knowingly dating a woman who undresses and/or performs sexual acts that can be seen by untold millions only increases the likelihood of some degenerate twat running his mouth, which in turn increases the possibility of me blowing a gasket.
As also mentioned, when I turn off the PC I leave porn behind. It's a subject I don't want to talk about or even think about when I'm not working. Dating someone in the content side of that would make my little escape from this shit a tad bit difficult. Further, I like to keep my private life out of this business. I'm pathologically private and having someone so directly involved with this industry necessarily privy to the private parts of my life would make me incredibly uncomfortable unless I was sure she wouldn’t go spilling the beans out of vengeance, being malicious, etc.
The only upside I could see is that the last couple of women I've taken interest in more than just fucking have split as soon as they realized "porn" is really what I do or it’s become an issue that “you could do so much more than just sell that garbage”.
I simply wouldn't know how to deal with the afore mentioned issues. They could be over inflated or paranoia but I simply don't know because I've never dated a content girl and are issues I'd have to think on long and hard before ever doing so.
BTW - I wouldn’t date you if you were a girl either. I don’t do the granny age bracket.