Peaches, my most sincere condolences go out to you. I never had a chance to meet or even see pictures of your son but if he is your son I am sure he was an outstanding individual.
So few people can celebrate a life lived and have that type of attitude, our family is the same way though. It helps to remember the good times and talk with friends and any family you do have about all the great memories you have and celebrate his life. I know it is the only way my mom was able to get through her mother's death a few months ago. I learned alot of things about my grandmother in her younger days I never knew about before.
I'm glad to see you have the same attitude and I really don't know of anything I could say to make you feel better. I have a daughter myself and it would tear me away to lose her, I have no idea what you are going through and won't act like I do or ever could nor make any suggestions on how to handle your grief except rely on your friends during this very difficult time.
If you need ANYTHING Peaches, hit me up on ICQ. I'm around all the time and have no problems talking to you on the phone, ICQ, or if you need help with any arrangements you can't bring yourself to make.
I know I haven't been around for a few years Peaches, but you were always so outgoing every time I stopped by over the years and I believe you are the one who helped me get back into the business again this time working with Andy - you took time out of your busy schedule to answer a nobody's questions.. Shows me your generosity is unparalleled.
I just wish there was more I could do.
Ryan
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