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Originally posted by PornoDoggy@Mar 21 2005, 06:40 PM
Now, you can repeat verbatim the attacks on his character that the supporters of her family have because he has not chosen the martyr route that they have. Maybe he is an asshole and their shit don't stink - but I personally am not going to judge the man. It's just not as simple as you want to make it.
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it almost seems as though you did not read my post. i simply said that they both seem to have valid concerns and arguments... and was trying to say that i am a little surprised at peoples reactions to this, regardless of what side they are on. there is nothing about this that is black and white in my opinion. the family wants one thing and are justified in my opinion. the husband wants another thing which seems to be justifiable as well. maybe my tone comes off much different than i intend it do. just as the dr says in the interview you posted... she smiles and she does a lot of things that would indicate to someone that wanted to believe that she might somewhat aware of or conscious of her surroundings or is capable of indicating from time to time that she might be. thats sort of my point.. its not an easy or simple decision and i think both sides are right to fight for what they believe is the right thing to do because you can't undo death.
i heard family members speaking out on this issue and they seemed to be quite respectful towards him and were pretty clear that they did not believe he had any ill-will or bad intentions... and this was right after he stopped their visitation rights.