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Originally posted by Anthony@Feb 15 2005, 05:56 AM
I went out again down to a club in my city.
I don't know what's wrong with me. I saw girls that I thought were attractive, but the majority were fat drunk ones.
My friends girl was like, you have your pick of any drunk girl here, I couldn't be bothered. Alot of it was the one drink I took thinking it may have affected my good judgement.
I'm trying this rewiring thingy of yours Grimm. Going out on a double date getting setup on wednesday. I'm attempting to meet women outside a nightclub.
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let me know how it works.. don't overthink it, figure out what is important to YOU and make it your first priority to fix whatever it is in your thinking or life that is making it hard to find your own happiness. once you can be at peace with yourself and the place you are in, the whole thing should get a bit easier. Understanding the self seems to be imperative for real happiness. Im working on it

Im sure you've encountered similar thinking in discipline training in martial arts.. see if it translates, you never know.
double date seems to be a good place to start dating. less stress.. common element, no pressure for conversations.
If not you can always switch teams, homo