You can meet volumes of chicks at bars, but just because you plowed her with drinks and got her number doesn't mean you are compatible.
Some will tell you different, but internet dating is the way to go. Why? Because you can find out a little about them from the profile, and talk to the person online first and see of you'd get along in person. Plus you can save the chat logs so you can remember all the info you got out of the way online, and use it for conversation on your first date as well.
Match.com and myspace (although ive never used myspace it does have a 75 alexa rating) is the way to go, especially if you live in a big city. If I do a a search for within 10 miles of my zip ages 21-23 I get about 250 results. Look at em, see who you like, and send them all a copy pasted I'm interested blah blah blah message. You'll get dates all week if you want to, unless you are butt ugly or tell her you really love star treck, in which case you could still get couple dates.
Combine match.com, myspace, tickle.com etc and you will find so many girls you could date, and you get the pleasure of talking to em for a while before your first date. I suggest making a seperate aim account for this, save all the chat logs and aim info and profile URL on each person in a text file.
I found my girlfriend on match.com and we've been dating for 9 months. You get to find exactly what you are looking for.
Best way to find a partner is to make an effort. You don't want to end up alone and bitter like CJ.....do you?
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