I've got to agree with Vick on this one.
We put out vibes of some sort when we're available.
I met my honey, Tev, at a point in life where not only wasn't I looking, I had no reasonable expectation that I should be looking. Couldn't have come along at a worse time.
BUT.
We're going to be married ten years in July, so I guess the timing is what you make of it.