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Originally posted by Peaches@Feb 25 2004, 01:47 PM
"Love" is a bad word to use in this instance. I love my son, my parents, my siblings, my friends and I don't think I could put them all into those 3 "forms". 
And no, I don't think humans are physically monogamous, I think you have to be monogamous spiritually - it's your heart and brain that keeps you from straying.  And the fear of getting your ass whooped by your spouse's attorney. :P
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So if you are married, but you meet someone who you have a chemistry with, you are supposed to deny yourself a physical pleasure because you have a spiritual commitment to someone?! Wouldn't someone who you had a true spiritual commitment with WANT you to experience pleasure - with or without them?
Its in forcing ourselves (or each other) to be monogamous that problems occur in a relationship - and before you say that you shouldn't be in a relationship if you feel that way - 70% of the population is! We are pressured to go through life and 'find a mate' who we are then encouraged to marry as soon as possible and settle down and start producing children with ...
no wonder so many people are fucked up!!!!
I think our relationship thoughts must be as opposite as humanly possible Peaches LOl!!!!