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Originally posted by Dianna Vesta@Feb 6 2004, 03:08 PM
Today in the US mothers are having babies and returning to work two months later or sooner. Something very wrong with that but they have no choice.
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Of course they have a choice. Don't have kids you can't afford.
Sure there are circumstances beyond your control - when I had my son I was married, I was a stay at home mother and my husband made good money. I would never have dreamed I would have been a single mother.
But even as a struggling single mother I was ALWAYS involved with my kid's education. I moved where there were good schools, not where it was convenient for me. I went to every open house, PTA meeting and teacher/parent conference. I went to EXTRA one on one meetings with the teachers and principals if needed.
If someone's not willing to take the time to raise their kid, then they have no business having a kid. They have that choice.