One thing I will say...
When my dad passed away, we asked that people make a donation to St. Judes in lieu of sending flowers. For a long time after that we recieved notices from St. Judes saying "a donation has been made by (insert name) in memory of..."
The one I liked the best was "a donation has been made by (a friend) in memory of..." Whoever it was did that every month for a few years, and I always respected the fact that the person wanted to remain anonymous...
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