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Originally posted by cj@Feb 2 2004, 07:30 PM
i'm in a similar position though mike, i will probably have to buy a gift this year ... what do you buy a man for valentines?!?!?!?
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Actually V- Day gifts make men nervous (or at least me)
We then feel we have something to live up to or to top
An ex years back gave me the full treatment, she got me a dozen roses, cards, chocolates, liquor, made a incredible dinner, had candles lit in her room and surprised me with the new lingerie she was wearing after her clothes came off after dinner
and I'm thinking - this is great but I still have to top it
CJ - keep it simple and upfront - make plans to go away for the weekend or overnight somewhere- V-Day is on a Saturday
Edit - and do the dinner, drinks, sex thing - no pressure,
no gifts you have to try to make sure you didn't get them something they like and isn't bigger, more "meaningful" than what they gave you
Last edited by Vick at Feb 2 2004, 07:43 PM