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Originally posted by Vick@Dec 29 2003, 10:10 AM
more opinion about people and relationships
You really don't know fully know someone you're seeing until you've known them for a year
There is 30 day nice - all the pleasantries they can show/offer
60 day nice - a little more of the "real" person comes into play
90 day nice - if there is a facade it is starting to crack
6 month nice - If the person you're seeing has problems (hopefully not) they are coming into the relationship more now
1 Year - the cat's out of the bag -
you now have the "real" person - hopefully they are not farting in front of you but if they are - that's what you're going to have
CT - you have only been seeing the female a few months, give it time and space (never easy) keep yourself busy doing positive things -
GO HAVE FUN!!!
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WOW... is THAT the truth!
Hub and I started dating in February - he went to the Army in May - we got married in August. It's a miracle that we're still totally in love with each other, and have been married for 16+ years. All of the other alumni from his BT unit are all divorced - we are the only "survivors."
In all honesty - we were LUCKY.
You really don't know a person until you've been together for over year - have been through at least one difficult/trying personal/emotional crisis together and have had a couple of really good arguments...
Peaches... sounds like the small town where I grew up in Ohio - only I was "small town" too long - married @ 18, baby @ 20, 2nd baby @ 21... GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN!!!! lol
