I dont think people should settle or compromise in relationships when they are considering marriage. either you are 100% compatable for each other or not. women are the worst at thinking they can change the guy once they are married... guys are really bad at thinking they can tollerate more than they will.
My opinion is that too many people get married too young without the benefit of life experience to guide them in decision making. FAR too many people are seeking out people for the wrong reasons and confusing love with co-dependence, insecurity and various other needs that would be far better satisfied with therapy and medication rather than creating a doomed marriage and miserable children.
I have had sex with tons of girls that i thought were perfect physically. Girls that i thought were 10's. It was really cool for about a year. Then i started finding myself wanting more and that a perfect physical relationship for me, could never be as fulfilling if there was not a strong emotional bond.
Sex is sex. If that is what people are most interested in, then there is no reason on earth to consider getting married. just go fuck.
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