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Originally posted by kath@Oct 26 2003, 12:38 PM
Of course I'm still selfish when it comes to him, but I'm mature enough now to respect his wishes.... I'm still burying him in the backyard though - lol I'll never be ready to let go. 
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I want to be cremated. I've seen the damage it does to people to feel obligated to visit a headstone, remember to order flowers to be put on it on special occassions, feeling guilty for moving away from the headstone, and the way it won't allow people to let go because the headstone becomes the "physical presence" of the person who is gone.
It's horrible. Burn me up and let me blow away on the wind. Then go on with your life.