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Originally posted by BradShaw@Jul 30 2003, 11:20 AM
I get no all the time, then keep going. I read women like that. What woman does not want a man to take control.
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There's control, hot savage- "Oh my god no, no, baby" and then "stop you fuck."
I think someone should be able to tell the difference and if you're not sure just stop for a moment and say, "Are you sure?"
You can always resume, just might take longer.
In BDSM (you've probably heard this before) we use something called, "safe words". This way you can scream, cry, plead, etc. and the action will NOT stop unless you use that normally non-sexually word. It could be something like "snow" or "mailman".
Sometimes what makes a hot scene is the expressions, the taboo nature of it. I can see why it might be hard for someone to stop while directly involved but the law is the law and no should mean no.