Ok, a Will is a bad example. Maybe insurance is a better example. Or maybe think of it as kind of an "extended warranty" for the marriage. Whatever...
I just dont buy the argument of a pre-nup is planning for failure and not making a lifetime commitment. It's just a matter of being prepared for any eventuality. And with a divorce rate of 50%, it makes good sense.
Dont get me wrong. I very much believe marriage should be a life long commitment. My grandparents just celebrated their 65th anniversary, and my parents are working on number 44. Rest assured if I ever get married, it is my intention to take that "til death to us part" line seriously.
Afterall, a Smith & Wesson is cheaper than a pre-nup anyway....
