cj -
It probably wouldn't take too many guesses... Fortunately I've been blessed with a great group of friends, a large influence of respectable aquaintances and only a small dose of assholes. That narrows things down quite a bit. lol
But hey, to quote my favorite saying, "everything is educational." We are the sum of all our experiences - the good and the bad. Even the assholes can teach us in their own special way...