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Originally posted by sarettah@Jun 3 2003, 08:09 PM
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Ooh yucky. All that sun would drive me mad. Like sleeping in a tent. Although I understand some people worship the sun, you look like one of them.
My wife and I had the classic out-of-highschool mad love story. We had kids young: she was 20, I was 21 and tiny quarrels and bitchfights aside, after 13 years I can tell you it really takes some years before the strains of time affect ANY relationship.
I still love my wife and she still loves me but we are currently separated while we ponder our next moves. I remember some guy at one of our weddings ( it was so nice, we did it twice - on Halloween with a pumpkin aisle ), this total drunk that stumbled into our first wedding on the beach. In the only moment of clarity he said: "Grow together, not apart!"
The key I think is friendship, it helps if your mate is also your good or best friend, a confidant. Obviously by having secret relationships outside the main one, one in effect disables the friendship part which is directly linked to intimacy (I don't mean just fucking) and creates for the beautiful eco-system we call love and marriage
Last edited by Ironhorse at Jun 5 2003, 01:38 PM