welp spent the last 40 minutes dredging through posts by heqdvd as well as posts by you cj.
Let me share what I learned: heqdvd was a bit out there, you realized however that his weakness was that he liked to argue things and wasnt very good at doing it. You on the other hand like to argue things but are a bit more articulate and have more experience than he did to speak of.
Congrats on the experience but the problem now being, I too (like he was) am new here. I as foolishly as it may have been assumed this was a place to discuss individual strengths that may have added to the boards experience as a whole. However luckily I had you to point out to me that it realyl does not matter what I know, or I guess what I can show via affiliate stats, because im not "one of the few that were here at the beginning" or im not an "ass kisser".
From what I have read, you are a very successful woman who has a lot of positive goals both on and off the internet, whether it be continueing to develop sites and projects to crunch numbers and better ratios, or opening that shelter to assist "single mums", or even plan B being something that isnt even invented yet.
Your personality doesn't lend well to others posting of their successes, whilst this can be a problem for people easily flustered like heq, its not for me as I consider everyone here as someone I can learn something from.
The main problem is what im learning at this point is things seem to be more cliche and political in nature here. Which doesn't lend well to anyone learning anything. You go from one extreme at GFY where all they do is spam and post about crap to people here in my opinion somewhat afraid to post actual thoughts for fear of what others would say or how their idea would be torn apart, much like my idea about developing adultmagazine.org which iguess started most of this off.
Too many of you are closed minded because something might not be, a product or service you havent mastered yet or have had experience with. however instead of constantly putting people down why not try to better the group. I may come across as cocky but its more just me being confident in what I do, much like you are. The difference is I have not put forth much effort yet as I am just not motivated. I think that is most of what seperates your successes to the successes I might never have.
Everyone wants something different out of life, all I want is happiness and a tad bit of success so i can have a log cabin somwhere quiet. I dont need to push "75K in the last three months" or "bigger numbers over the past few years"
I think Serge partially said it best in I guess what was one of heqdvd's last posts:
"I was banned from GFY TWICE..
so??????
BANNED means somebody with guts to go against the popular opinion, so what?"
to which you replied as well:
"BANNED also means 'jerk who rubs everyone up the wrong way'
so far i've seen nothing but a lot of big words and showing off"
If im rubbing you the wrong way its because you dont know me and dont want to, who knows why, who cares... im going against popular opinion that its necessary to kiss ass to have a business relationship with people.
And as far as nothing but a lot of big words and no proof as with heqdvds case. I was called out and asked to show proof of what I was talking about... thats what this thread was about. I was waiting to see who would be the one that posted proving that I guess this "proof" wasn't enough, and it wasnt much of a shock.
Mutual respect is earned, I start off with respect for pretty much everyone I meet and it goes up and or down from there. So far i haven't seen anything of substance from you explaining what exactly your issue with me is, which leads me to believe you really dont have one. So can we please move on from this rediculous babble and learn from each other on the board as e all come from different backgrounds and carry knowledge the other doesnt have.
-Lou
im headed to bed and will respond to any replies in the morning or afternoon EST when i get up
Last edited by Loun at Apr 15 2003, 01:12 AM
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