Awwww balls! You've started to talk about something which I have to add my two pence (cents) to, so here goes nothing.
For those of you who don't know me, my name is Jeremy and I webmaster Richard's Realm for Richard, dealing with the day-today running, the advertising and managing the Review Team etc. I've been around and about working on the Realm since Jan 1997 and having known Richard since we were about 8 I was pretty much there when he first set the site up way back in March 1996.
I also deal with all the sales aspects of our content site:
http://www.adultcontent.co.uk/ which sells sets and (even if I do say so myself) rather good quality image and video plugins.
There's quite a few people around here who I know and quite a few of you also know Richard of old, possibly from the YNOT days - Mike AI, if memory serves, you & Richard had an old school link exchange going back in the days of yore?