Good for you Rox - wish I would have had the "stones" to do what you did. My hub started to raise his voice but I stopped him - I guess I shoulda let him get it out there...we never did get the assistance we needed. Fortunately we found some awesome church charity that helped us out - and helped hub get a job to boot. We've been donating to that church ever since - so it was definitely a win-win for those folks.
I don't forget who helps me get back on my feet. Not ever.
I also don't forget who slapped me down. I never forget.