I've finally realized that I REALLY like food - all food! I love the way it smells, the way it tastes, the way it feels in my mouth, etc., etc. Carbs and sweets are my weakness. I love veggies - even raw - but also enjoy them covered in a nice cream or cheese sauce

I've also realized I'm not ever going to be "thin" - no one in my family is thin - we're stocky German/Scottish/Norwegians. At my "thinnest", I wasn't thin, lol!
When I've lost weight before, I've done it by doing exactly as Serge said - cutting back - WAY back. And giving myself a bonus day every month, where I can hit the Mexican Restaurant and order what I want
Like you, exercise just never seems to fit into the day. But with the kid going into the Air Force, he needs to start running, so at least 3 days a week, we're going down the mountain to one of the few flat roads around here, and I'm walking while he runs. I also bought the "Walk away the pounds" DVD's so I can't do the "but it's RAINING!" excuse.....
Thankfully, per the doctor, my cholesterol's great, BP's great, etc. I'm healthy as a horse - just starting to look like one too
You'd be fine if you stopped getting knocked up every year