So I meet this girl at the club, she actually works there. We are hitting if off fine, she's one of the dancers (Not not a strip club) and friends with my buddy's girl.

She's hawt, got great legs, nice back, and just thick like the way I like em, lately anyways. She's one of the Belly Dancers who do shows during the night, so I"m really fucking intrigued, I've never been with one, and the way they shed moved her hips, well, kinda makes me horny as shit.

I'm thinking we're hitting it off, we're having a great time, we're grinidng to hip hop, all is pointing well. I find out later in the evening she's like a massive coke fiend from my another friend she keeps bothering her and her boyfriiend for some.

WTF? In the past, this was a big flag for me. 2 years ago, it would have been a party, blow everywhere, people's jaw getting broken, anything goes.

Nowadays, I have one night I get a little sloppy on grey goose and red bull (Which is killing my diet, so I'm gonna have to give that up too), think I met a semi decent nice girl, at least I thought so, and BAM! It's like the world spits in my face. Give that shit up, and what do you know, it's not done with you.

So anyways, maybe I'm looking in the wrong place. Whowever heard of a lasting relationship happening in a fucking club?

If you haven't already figured, yes, I'm rambling, and some of my friends, know that this is a true sign of me being drunk off my tits.

Why is it in life, the good ones are already taken? I say that now, but even if they were, my fantasy would be shattered cause I'll find some thing wrong them anyways.

I WANT TONYLAND BACK!!!

GIVE ME BACK TONYLAND!!!

I'm going to sleep.

See y'all in the morn.

Huggles!

Anthony,

I think you're attracted to the troubled girls. Consider the pool you're playing in. If the girl gets paid in cash at the end of the night she is probably trouble.

Yes, I know because I'm the same way.

Tony,
only date those who do lots of red
;)

hmmm.

Dancer, Paid, Bar, Attractive.

Looks like the human resources dept at the place is doing a great job! Sending people home drunk and sexually frustrated is what brings you back.

Never date women from bars, unless you own the bar. :)

Probably a much better selection at your local gym. Find a woman that can bench as much as you and marry her! :rokk:

Tonyland is an awesome place though.

I enjoyed having a vacation home there for quite a while ;-))))

My fucking head hurts. I'm not a big drinker, so killing a bottle of Grey Goose for me is alot.

Bill, I go to the gym like it's my religon. I'll post some pics when I get back from the gym when my camera is charged. When I'm at the gym, I don't look around, I don't socialize, I'm in there to move weight. One of the reasons I joined World's versus Boca Athletic Club was the eye candy factor. I didn't want the distraction. I worked out with my friend Adam at the Boca AC all last week. The intensity just wasn't there cause I kept staring at hotties. :) Hammer military press, tuesday was my best so I thought at 120lbs each hand for reps, I did 140 each side for 7 reps last night back at Worlds.

I find myself stronger at 36 versus 28 when I first started as a webmaster. It's old man strengnth kicking in.

Back to the club thing... I should know better. I'm not looking for a long term commitment! :) I'm going to be prepared next week. LOL

Colin,

Birds of a feather flock together. Consider my closest buds in this biz. :)

Yup. :okthumb:

ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring.

That first post has a familiar feel and ring to it!! Hahaha! Did you do any drunk dialing as well last night Ant? Sykk gets that a bunch from me! :P I also do drunk ICQing.. just ask Lisa and CJ!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring. [/b][/quote]
Any luck with the rewiring? I've never been able to do it. ;-)

:ph34r:

Any luck with the rewiring? I've never been able to do it. ;-) [/b][/quote]
work in progress, i guess:)

work in progress, i guess:) [/b][/quote]
Let me know if you reach the promised land!

Let me know if you reach the promised land! [/b][/quote]
you'll be the first to know;)

ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring. [/b][/quote]
Drawn to them. Yeah especially if they are blonde, hawt, and have a nice rack.

Drawn to them. Yeah especially if they are blonde, hawt, and have a nice rack. [/b][/quote]
different descriptions, same gist;)

LMFAO!!!!

Anthony said huggles!!!!!!!!

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA


On a serious note, good fucking on you for walking away from what you knew could only turn ugly. For someone who just polished off a bottle of alcohol you sure did stick to your commitments to yourself ... so instead of beating yourself up over losing someone messed up that would only have ended in drama anyway, pat yourself on the back for putting yourself first and taking care of you.

:okthumb: :okthumb:

ditto.... i recognized that about myself a long time ago. the more messed up the girl, the more i was drawn. think it takes some rewiring. [/b][/quote]
Don't think this only applies to men...

Don't think this only applies to men... [/b][/quote]
Kimmy you are absolutely correct.

Big hugs sweets.

Don't think this only applies to men... [/b][/quote]
definitely, works both ways.

Don't think this only applies to men... [/b][/quote]
I was thinking the same thing reading this thread :awinky:

Just dick whip em all Anthony ( they like it ) LOL

definitely, works both ways. [/b][/quote]
At this point a chisel and a steady hand would be nice.

At this point a chisel and a steady hand would be nice. [/b][/quote]
:P

I was thinking the same thing reading this thread :awinky: [/b][/quote]
why is it that women like us unstable types :yowsa:

If you have chosen to work in the porn industry .. you might need relationship assistance.

I think you may be right.

I think you may be right. [/b][/quote]
I think I'm the only person in my entire company who is not married. Someone is making good hiring decisions. Nice, stable normal people ;-)

I think I'm the only person in my entire company who is not married. Someone is making good hiring decisions. Nice, stable normal people ;-) [/b][/quote]
When I broke up with my wife in 2000, I didn't date anyone for a good 2 years or so.

Life was definately easier.

This will probably last till next saturday.

We are a lot alike.

Funny, I average around 18 months to 2 years normally. There are exceptions that prove how stupid I can be ;)

I'm more for the rebound factor than anything else with waiting.

Funny, I average around 18 months to 2 years normally. There are exceptions that prove how stupid I can be ;) [/b][/quote]
thats my problem too. the most fucked up relationships ive been in are the ones that last the longest.

Though every once in awhile, I meet someone who makes me forget my rule.

why is it that women like us unstable types :yowsa: [/b][/quote]
Here's your answer grimm!!

http://www.oprano.com/msgboard/index...ST&f=1&t=16597

When I broke up with my wife in 2000, I didn't date anyone for a good 2 years or so.

Life was definately easier.

This will probably last till next saturday. [/b][/quote]
I've got you beat. Been 4 years already and still going.

:blink: :huh:

Geeze, you guys need to learn you can go on dates w/o having to start picking out china patterns! :P

I guess because I won't go to the movies or eat by myself, I've always dated almost immediately after a breakup. Having a relationship is a completely different matter, but if someone asks me out, 99 times out of 100 I'm going...well, I say that, as I've gotten older that's dropping to about 75 times out of 100 - I can spot the boring ones earlier now :okthumb:

I totally agree with you there, but that's my average single time between the fucked up fools ;)

It's kinda weird. While all my friends through the years, have been the wild swinging commitment phobic types, I have always been the one in long term relationships.

For once, I'd like to meet a girl who I'm interested in, and not automatically think, "Do I have a future with this person" and just enjoy dating.

This just came to me after I hit the post button...

I guess I'm too busy looking for "The One".

:(

I totally agree with you there, but that's my average single time between the fucked up fools ;) [/b][/quote]
its the ones in between that work out the best for all parties involved. Im good in small doses;)

I went out again down to a club in my city.

I don't know what's wrong with me. I saw girls that I thought were attractive, but the majority were fat drunk ones.

My friends girl was like, you have your pick of any drunk girl here, I couldn't be bothered. Alot of it was the one drink I took thinking it may have affected my good judgement.

I'm trying this rewiring thingy of yours Grimm. Going out on a double date getting setup on wednesday. I'm attempting to meet women outside a nightclub.

"Love is as a butterfly which, when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but which if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you"

Dont look for it sweetheart, it will find you.... :inlove:

I almost threw up after reading that.

:)

I almost threw up after reading that.

:) [/b][/quote]
Me too and I'm a chick! :barfon:

Me too and I'm a chick! :barfon: [/b][/quote]
You don't have to work with her.

That's not a butterfly, it's a harbinger of the hornets nest to come. Smack it with a flyswatter and save yourself the trouble of having to deal with the rest of the nest lol

That's not a butterfly, it's a harbinger of the hornets nest to come. Smack it with a flyswatter and save yourself the trouble of having to deal with the rest of the nest lol [/b][/quote]
Shut up about my caridad!

Shut up about my caridad! [/b][/quote]
Hahhaa, katydid or cicada or maybe even crawdad... what the hell is a caridad?