Knew I should have kicked that Old Coke habit up to 1/2 ounce a day - My heart could of taken it for a couple more weeks in those quantities at least. All i had on 5 g a day was heart palpatations... LOL

Than I would have had some bragging rights... Hindsight is 20/20 though 'eh? Although from the stories I heard, wouldn't of outdone some people here - LOL ...

5 grams a day.

You must have had some shitty yeyo brah.

What's important is that you are back and in the game.

Far from, probably why my life fell apart...

I think I have learned more and dealt with more shit than alot of people 40 years or older and I am just turning 27 in June. For once, it feels like the pieces are starting to fall back into place though... Just need to get back to making the bank I was when I was 20 :)

and thats the double truth, ruth. [/b][/quote]
You've been with this girl a month and the honeymoon's over already because of her drug use?

If you don't get rid of her, then you're the one that needs a 12 step program.

You've been with this girl a month and the honeymoon's over already because of her drug use?

If you don't get rid of her, then you're the one that needs a 12 step program. [/b][/quote]
who me?:)

who me?:) [/b][/quote]
Hahaha, no, not you.

Hahaha, no, not you. [/b][/quote]
lol:) i go to 12 step programs to meet women;)

Naughty - free advice is usually worth every cent you pay for it but

I'd say walk away while you can
The only one who can help her is herself and she has to hit bottom first (in her own eyes) before she can start getting somewhat sober

If she can't say no now, what's going to happen at the end of a 24 hour binge when there is no more left? What would she'd do then for the next one?

Not saying she's a bad person, just someone with a problem that only they can fix and only when they finally want to

It's destructive for her now, don't want to see that pain/agony passed along to you as well

And truthfully without naming names there are a few posting to Oprano who have some experience in these type matters

It sucks and you have my sympathies but if I can be so bold as to suggest you don't become or go any further being an enabler

Ditch the chick AND the "idiots".

It will end in tears.

Get out now while you can.

No Kimmy, not a month, almost 4, which in many cases is more than enough to make judgements.

I'm just a little worried if I am wasting time or should be patient.

hahaha, that is my life ... 200% for everything and feel the pain later.

Looks like I have to get a couple new sneakers























... but I probably won't, I'm an idiot when it comes to relationships. I always stay till they start fucking with me.

Too much honesty in this thread from me though, damn.

Lots of good advice here naughty. I know it's tough to do but you would be wise to listen. The bottom line is that until she hits bottom you are in for a lot of painful moments AND there is no guarantee that she will ever truly "hit bottom" to the point where she tries to take control of her life.

Time to clean some house.

Sounds like it's past that :(

Most of the posters in this thread have revealed waaaay more in their time. No shame in it.

Good luck with whichever way you decide. :)

Our answers were truthful.

To have lied to you would have been disrectful to you.

Avoid women with baggage....

Unless its a matching set of either:

Ferarri
Gucci
or Louis Vuitton

:)

Unless its a matching set of either:

Ferarri
Gucci
or Louis Vuitton

:) [/b][/quote]
:lol: :lol: :lol:

I don't know why but I thought that was insanely funny!! My ribs hurt now!! :P

Unless its a matching set of either:

Ferarri
Gucci
or Louis Vuitton

:) [/b][/quote]


HAHAHA :lol: :lol:

Classic!

:wnw:

Unless its a matching set of either:

Ferarri
Gucci
or Louis Vuitton

:) [/b][/quote]
Only if she was able to buy them herself B)

Only if she was able to buy them herself B) [/b][/quote]
:okthumb:

outside of high school, where do you find them?;)

outside of high school, where do you find them?;) [/b][/quote]
Why look anywhere else til you have scoured every single high school?!?!?!?!!

;-)))

Run...RUN...RUN

As fast as you can in any direction as long as it is away.

Do not pass GO, do not collect saviourdom, do not collect martyrdom. :huh:

i'm guessing she has a nice trim figure right?

You fell in "love" with a cokehead after a couple months...

I really don't even need to say anything else.

You fell in "love" with a cokehead after a couple months...

I really don't even need to say anything else.[/b][/quote]


Not so sure that needed to be said... :unsure:

It's late, till coffee time tomorrow folks....

Threesomes can be fun, but not with that bitch. Coke is the bitch I am referring to, and as long as she's in the picture she will steal her away every time.

Simply asking the question that you did makes you a prime candidate for the codependency support group of your choice. If this is not the first time you've found yourself in this prediciment, you might want to consider giving such a group a try whether you tell her to hit the road or not.

If you've got reasons to stay invested in the relationship, and she's willing to quit (alone or with help) - maybe it is worth trying, although you have no idea what the hell she's like if she's been coked up for four months.

You have to have the balls to say "Coke or me" and mean it, or you continue to bang your head on that brick wall.

If you say that 4 months is time enough for judgements but you're still wondering whether you're making a mistake or not, then you probably are making a mistake.

Actually I'd say you're definitely choosing heartache and pain over a satisfying relationship no matter how you look at it.

Give her the ultimatum, you or the dope, see what she says and then watch what she does.

That should give you your answer.

You fell in "love" with a cokehead after a couple months...

I really don't even need to say anything else. [/b][/quote]
Don't make me feel like shit because I actually agree with you for once.

I would have stayed with a girl with nasty coke habit and eventually would turn into a coke head myself. Than I would dump her and live together with heroin addict. After a while, this would bore me too, and I'd end up with the girl who likes mixing laxatives with sleeping pills. Never ending excitement and gentle on one's waller.

On a lighter note ive never done Coke but im addicted to Sprite Zero, does that count? ;)

In all seriousness though, i havent 'done' anything harder than a joint in my life 'cept for one tim when i had a bad E trip while on a night out with the lads and even that wasnt deliberate, one of the cunts dropped it in my drink, something to be said about friends like those but i dont quite remember it ;)

I actually spoke with her yesterday for a long time and she really wants to quit doing coke, except every now and then when she's with me at a party or something like that (I think that is okay too by the way, as long as it is with me present and not large quantities). I think she just likes it a little too much. She did agree that it was time to loose the 'idiots' I referred to earlier, time will tell if she will actually manage to do so.

I did tell her that it would be silly to explain to people (among which are her parents) that I left her because I didn't like her doing coke. It was pretty much an eye opener for her as well.

Thanks for all the advise. I have to add though that she is not using drugs every day, but a couple times a week and not always lots of it. To me, that is more than I bargained for, hence my question on the board.

outside of high school, where do you find them?;) [/b][/quote]
What's wrong with high school?



























(graduating seniors, of course)

Are you following me around?

What's wrong with high school?
(graduating seniors, of course) [/b][/quote]
I was a 17 year old graduating senior, you pervert! :nyanya:

I was a 17 year old graduating senior, you pervert! :nyanya: [/b][/quote]
17 is legal 'round these parts;)